My Two Cents of Cerebral for today: 08/30/2013

Sometimes there is no one there to make us tell the truth when we say we are "fine" so we need to walk to the mirror and convince the person we see to "TELL THE TRUTH" Because admitting the truth to ourselves is one of the hardest hurdles to overcome!

Maria W.
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A Friday Thought "When life throws you ..."

It is FRIDAY! 


My Morning Motivational Thought:

"Many have heard that old saying about what to do when life throws you fruit, you simply make punch. I say find your FAITH and hold on tightly because that punch may quench your thirst but it will not HEAL your HEART!"

Enjoy this Faith Filled Friday!

Maria W.
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Tears of the Soul!

It hurts when those we love make our eyes water and tears begin to flow; our eyes will cry the last tear soon. When the tears flow from our soul it is something that cannot be reversed.

Gentlemen never make your loved ones soul cry and ladies never allow yourself to get to that point!

Love the one you are with and if you find yourself not loving that person anymore let them know then let them go!

Peace and Light,

Maria W.
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Dear Diary 08/29/2013 Mind over Matter!

Dear Diary,

08/29/2013

It has been a while since I have written.  Earlier today, I was thinking about all of the people who do not like me yet cannot really state a valid reason why.

Well this got me to thinking about the power of the human mind; it can do great things, I believe some call it mind over matter.  I came to this not so shocking conclusion that in my mind they do not matter! :o)

Moving right along to bigger and better things in my life! dismissing the small  minds with big mouths!

Maria W.
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Have you Heard! (My Two Cents of Cerebral for 08/29/2013)

Time for me to punch the clock and end my day.  I have a really simple Final Thought for the Evening:

YOU MATTER

Have a beautiful evening

Maria W.
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HEY you YEA you HI-FIVE!

YOU ARE DOING GREAT!

Now pass the compliment on! Make someones day!!

3:56 a.m. and it is MONDAY!

Wow seems like I just left a few hours ago! Good Morning
SUN-shines Welcome to another Marvelous Monday!

If Mondays Bring you down just go to a place in your mind that makes your happier! Before you know it today will be on its way to becoming Tuesday then Wednesday and so on!
Many People envy me because I get off very early in the day; count your blessings because while you are still sleeping, I am preparing to start my day see just look at he time! 3:56 a.m. My reward is a dismissal earlier than most! Which would you prefer?

"Stop counting the blessings of others and appreciate your own because odds are those people are more envious of yours!"

Maria W.
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Dear Diary "I have a story to tell" 08/25/2013

Dear Diary,

I was thinking about the old family matriarchs who are long gone.  I honor them and respect the lessons and history they instilled in me.

I learned how to cook from my Great Grandma Lucy; I learned how to be strong even when I had nothing from so many aunts who have left me here to carry the legacy.

It saddens me that the young ladies are promiscuous and dress like they are for sale because the older matriarchs are setting the worst examples in history.

I am silly and outgoing by my nature, but I am aware that I am older and should be an example for my grandchildren and other young women who I can be a beacon of light to!

We need to embrace our history and appreciate the fact that we have made it to a  point in our lives when we can become the story tellers.  I embrace my womanhood and my life experiences because they have me the lady I am; strong, independent, outspoken and appreciative of all that life has to offer.

My words of wisdom:

"Never forget your past and make sure you have a story you would be proud to tell and others would be excited to hear."

Maria W.
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Have Faith the hurt will cease!

This weeks inspiration:

1 Corinthians 3:16

Do you not know that you are God's temple and that God's Spirit dwells in you?

1 Corinthians 3:17 

If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him. For God's temple is holy, and you are that temple.

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My Two Cents of Cerebral for today: 08/25/2013

Until we learn to be happy being alone, we will continue to be an option and/or convenience for others!

I would rather come home to an empty house with no drama than a house of hell with revolving doors!

Dear Diary RACISM of a another kind!

Dear Diary,

A good friend of mine shared a blog with me today; I had to write something about it. Being someone on the receiving end of racism, I know what it is like to feel the hatred. I have been called many hurtful names; I was picked on and made to feel like I was a useless entity on the face of the planet. I had no one to turn to; I had no one to protect me.

Right about now many reading this are thinking this is yet another black and white issue; how wrong you are!

The hatred did not come from people who did not look like me, it came from those who did!

Maria W.
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My Two Cents of Cerebral for today 08/21/2013

Think about the relationships you have with people in your daily life.

 Do you have strong bonding friendships that makes you equals?

 Do you have people around you who are obsessed with you and         your life?

Are there people in your life who treat you like you belong to them and only them?

Now is a great time to evaluate your true wants and needs.  The question becomes this, do you want to be an equal, object or property?

I respect everyone's right to choose; if your choice is not making you happy it is time to make a new choice for a major change!

Maria W.
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I am NOT; I AM! **** My Two Cents of Cerebral for 08/20/2013)

Before you continue to disrespect me, remember that KARMA is a REAL BITCH!  She always comes to return the deeds done!

Dear Diary "I am FINE"

Dear Diary,

When Someone says they are "fine" read between the lines!

I am not sure where to begin today, you see I noticed that when I am up everyone is right here with me.  When My world crumbles there are many who can see through my many masks.

When they ask if I am OK, I simply replay with a somber "I am fine"  out of all of my friends only a handful will stay with me because they know that when I say that I am fine I could not be further from  being "FINE"

I can see though the masks many wear daily and I can feel the sense of that need for a friendly ear or a simple hug; I try to be available and accommodating.  I watch others pass me by but jump to the aid of those who were never there for them when they were running to me.

No sense for a pity party I just wish more people would understand that when someone is "fine" it is an acronym for something else usually!

Today I am:

F-oolish
I-nsignificant
N-othing
E-nding

so you see if anyone ask me If I am OK, I will simply say, I am FINE!


"Asking without action is futile!"

Maria W.
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Dear Diary "Wrong Number"

Dear Diary

This wrong number has been calling me for years multiple times a day!
today they started calling me from a new number but because of the call pattern I knew it was them as always I ignored it. 

so they get the bright idea to text me I told them they had the wrong number. They proceeded to tell me "Josslin call aunt Madeline or whatever her name is. I told her i had no idea who she was then i got the text "I am your cousin Ashley" I said I dont have a cousin Ashley I have a niece named Ashley. I am not Josslin! they proceeded to write back and say "YES YOU ARE JOSSLIN" 

LORD knows the world would not be as interesting if it were not for stupid people! Hug a stupid person in your life and let them know how important they are! MMk

Sunday Morning Meditation (Dirty Deeds) 08/18/2013 08/18 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

Sunday Morning Meditation (Dirty Deeds) 08/18/2013 08/18 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

Proverbs 24:28

Be not a witness against your neighbor without cause, and do not deceive with your lips.

Proverbs 21:6

The getting of treasures by a lying tongue is a fleeting vapor and a snare of death.

Do something SUNDAY! Positive thought of the day

Good Morning SUN-shines yep I am up and about to start the Sunday Morning Meditation Show! No excuses today, get and make something wonderful happen!

"we always find and excuse when bad things happen to us; if this is true there should be no excuse that prevents us from making positive things happen."

Maria W.
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HTH Book Club Welcomes Hezekiah L. Montgomery 08/17 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

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My Two Cents of Cerebral for today: The Poster Pick of the day!

So many of us know a friend or several who will bash men to the ground, over and over again.  Next thing we know some of us have  jumped on the band wagon and become card carrying members of the self pity party!

They say insanity is described as doing the same thing over and over but expecting different results.  The same goes for relationships.

"If you leave a piece of junk and pick up a piece of trash, both are bound for the DUMP"

Time to change your selection process and make wiser choices!

Maria W.
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Be Strong Enough!

Just a simple reminder:

Dear Diary yesterday was my "AN-NEVER-SORRY"

Dear Diary,

So this is the day after what would have been my 5th wedding anniversary.  I started thinking about those who have chosen to stay in their abusive, loveless relationships just to have a warm body in their cold beds and lives.

Sure some days I come home and hear the silence but I also hear peace and this means more than living a life of lies for show;  my ex is still out doing what he does best now his other women can deal with his mess!

LORD Knows I will send positive prayers for those who choose to stay with their abusers but for me I have no time for the drama or mess; I am ready to find the one who will appreciate, love and respect me BEST!

My Marriage crashed and burned; a memory of cinders and ash.  Time to get the broom and sweep it out with the rest of the trash!

Maria W.
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Fantastic Friday! Sharing some morning LOVE!

Good Morning SUN-Shines it is FRIDAY! we made it through another regular work week! YAY

If you  have not smiled all week try it today because the next second is not promised! Remember to share some love today; share some with yourself!


Maria W.
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Honor one another

Well Sun-shines time for me to punch the clock! I wanted to leave you with something I have shared before.

Remember that My Soul Honors Your Soul

Have a Beautiful evening everyone LORD willing I will be back tomorrow with more Dear Diary, My Two Cents of Cerebral and more!

Maria W.
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The Foundation Daily E-paper is out for 08/15/2013

Dear Diary FAMILY is thicker than BLOOD!

Dear Diary,

I was thinking about conversations I have had in the past; people ask how many children I have and I say I have 3 and 3 grands.  Many think automatically that I have triplets, I say oh no immediately! :o)

I proceed to say that two are by marriage and one by blood and my grands follow the same two by marriages and one by blood.

Everyone ask which grand is mine, I respond by saying "all of them are mine what do you mean?"

The Subject is changed quickly!

Family means more than a few strands of DNA, family means the people who are with you through thick and thin who encourage you in good times and not judge you in the bad.

I love my Son, Daughter in law and step daughter equally and I love my 3 grands a whole lotta bunch much!!

I love the matriarchs who are like a bunch of moms to me and I love those friends who are like sisters and brothers to me as much as those I am connected to by DNA.

ENOUGH SAID!

SCIENCE connects us by blood but the SOUL connection makes us FAMILY! and FAMILY is thicker than BLOOD!

Maria W.
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Choices! By My Two Cents of Cerebral for today!

My Final Though of the Evening:  Weathering the Storm

As I started my journey this morning I ran into a very heavy rainfall add the fact that the fog was rising from the street; I could not see anything.

I started to give up and turn around, seemed my bed was a much better choice!

I kept moving forward then suddenly there was clear roads and skies; the road was dry.

The Moral of this story is that after every storm the skies will clear and the sun will shine again; this has yet to fail in my lifetime.

My commute reminded me of the storms we face in life; we need to remember that we make the decision to ride it out, run for cover or find safer ground!

The choice is ours to give up, turn back or keep going ALWAYS!

Peace and Light,
Maria W.
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Dear Diary I met someone today!

Dear Diary,

I met this really cool person who I discovered loves the theater, all genres of music, dancing and so many of the things I used to love! I discovered that my friend knows how to pamper me and make me feel special.

Allow me to introduce you to my new best friend "ME"

Maria W.
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The Foundation daily for August 13, 2013

There can be no love without the love of self first!

If we do not love ourselves there is no way we could love anyone else.  Sure we could recite the three most sought after words every day but to say " I love you" without truth from our soul and spirit is nothing more and a gross misuse to 7 letters of the alphabet!

Maria W.
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Those with No self esteem will always try to destroy your Self Esteem!

Good Morning SUN-Shines time for my personal quote of the day and the Poster pick of the Morning.

"Remember the people who put you down only do so to divert the attention from their own shortcomings and inadequacies.  Do not allow their misery to destroy your self esteem and rob you of your happiness."

Maria W.
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My Two Cents of Cerebral for today!

Never stop living because your relationship has come to an end.
It was just another turn in your circle of life!

Maria W.
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Sunday Morning Meditation (PREDATOR) 08/11/2013 08/11 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

Sunday Morning Meditation (PREDATOR) 08/11/2013 08/11 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

The weak are the easiest prey!  Open your eyes and mind, be leary of those saying all of the right words to lure you into their web of lies and deceit.
This weeks inspiration:

1 Peter 5:8

 

Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.

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HTH Book Club Welcomes Svetlana Kim 08/10 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

HTH Book Club Welcomes Svetlana Kim 08/10 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

Svetlana Kim is the author of White Pearl and I:  A Memoir of a Political Refugee, which chronicles her journey from Russia to the United States, where she arrived with only one dollar in her pocket and not a single word of English at her disposal; today, she is a leader among her peers in the business world, and has been honored with numerous awards citing her commitment, skill, and integrity. 
Svetlana Kim's remarkable story opens in Leningrad, Russia, on a frigid winter afternoon. Standing in the bread line for the third day in a row, she listens as her neighbors discuss the impending fall of the Berlin Wall. Life as a student in a crumbling country offered few possibilities for the ambitious young woman, so when a former classmate offers her a plane ticket to the US., she jumps at the opportunity.

The Power of Silence! My Two Cents of Cerebral for 08/10/2013

My Two Cents of Cerebral for today

The Power of Silence

"Many people go through life talking too much without saying one useful word."

Seem when we are at rock bottom the experts come out of nowhere with all of the answers that "THEY" would do if the situation happened to them; it is easy to have an answer when one has never experienced the question.

Sometimes people who are in need and or hurting just need someone to listen.  Silence can be a powerful tool when one knows when and where to use it!

Maria W.
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HANDLE the DAY do not allow the DAY TO HANDLE YOU! My Two Cents of Cerebral for 08/08/2013

Good Morning SUN-Shines! time for my quote of the day and the poster pick of the morning.

Bad Day/ Deal with the day

How many times have we heard the old adage
"today is what you make it" I disagree totally

"If today is a day from hell that is what it is.  How you handle today is what makes the difference.  When in hell bring lots of water and walk swiftly through the flames!  Tomorrow will be here in 24 hours or less!"

Maria W.
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Topic: "WAKE UP" My Two Cents of Cerebral for today 08/07/2013

Good Morning SUN-Shines here is my personal quot and the poster pick of the morning!

"Know when to break up and when to make up; if your partner continues to be a F*** up, WAKE UP, PACK UP and MOVE UP" Nothing more to say!

Maria W.
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Dear Diary! "Relationship advice from single folks!" 08/06/2013 My Two Cents of Cerebral

Dear Diary,

I noticed that the people who criticize, ridicule, comment upon and give advice on my relationships are single.

Seems the people who have never walked anywhere much less a mile in my shoes have all of the answers to questions I never asked.

Gee I sure hope they come snooping in my diary real soon so that they can see my latest entry!

This ones for you and you and you too! Remember if I want your advice I will give it to you! mmK  :o)

Maria W.
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My Two Cents of Cerebral for today 08/06/2013

Once you figure out the guy you are dating is just another CLOWN, return him to the nearest circus immediately!

I am sure there are more than enough women out there willing to pay to see his performance!



Maria W.
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"The Road to Freedom or Insanity" My Two Cents of Cerebral for 08/05/2013

My thought for the evening is inspired by an old adage that goes something like this.
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"say what you mean and mean what you say"
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If you do not forgive your partner for hurting you, walk away and stay away! nothing Worse than a revolving door to nowhere!

"Remember, if you travel the same route on the same road you will end up and the same location."  Some call this routine; others call it insanity."

Maria W.
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My Two Cents of Cerebral for today! 08/05/2013

From the outside looking in, a letter to the EX's of the WORLD who did US wrong!

It was best that we let them go because LOVE had nothing to do with the relationships in the first place.

Maria W.
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Dear Diary Collection entry for 08/04/2013

Dear Diary,

I decided to wait a while before I made a new entry.  Last time I wrote my ex-best friend had taken my man.  

You see I may have told my Ex best friend everything she needed to know to take my man, but I never shared why that would not have been such a great idea. My new best friend who I call "Karma" decided to get even on my behalf of course.

To add insult to injury, my ex best friend offered me to continue our friendship; she suggested I put on my big girl panties and get over it.  I promised to pay for us to get matching tattoos sometime ago, we were going to be beautiful butterflies.  I decided to give my big girl panties a try; I made an appointment for us.

My Ex- best friend was very excited when she saw the finished product on my back of the most beautiful butterfly she had ever seen; that was her own words. 

I told the artist to give her something more dramatic and befitting of who she was.  She could not wait to see the design that was bound to be even better than my own, she even boasted jokingly that she was going to one up me again.  I just smiled and said "oh I am sure she would."

I had to leave so I left her with a small note; I asked the artist to give it to her when he finished the design.  I hope you like you new tattoo, I changed up the design just a little bit, but believe me after all you  have done for me, you deserve it!

Love,
Your ex- best friend
ME

My Two Cents of Cerebral for 08/04/2013

Good Morning SUN-shines welcome to another beautiful day on this earth.  Here is my personal quote of the day and the poster pick of the day.


"I would rather walk the rocky road alone, than walk the paved road with fools."

Maria W.
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Sunday Morning Meditation (LOVER of LIES) 08/04/2013 08/04 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

Sunday Morning Meditation (LOVER of LIES) 08/04/2013 08/04 by Healing Through Hurt | Women Podcasts

"I would rather quench my thirst with a warm cup of TRUTH than a tall glass filled with Liquid LIES!"

This weeks inspiration:

1 Corinthians 5:6

Your boasting is not good. Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?

Job 19:2

“How long will you torment me and break me in pieces with words?

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My Two Cents of Cerebral for 08/02/2013 (NEVER LET any man PULL you this LOW!)

My Two Cents of Cerebral for today!

HE or she hurt you, OK! They have moved on and you are still sitting in silence and single, OK!  Your silence has become rage; alright! You spend most of your time thinking of ways to retaliate for your loss and you envy of their happiness, NOT GOOD!

Once we allow ourselves to become everything we despised in the one who has hurt us, we become a problem to ourselves; we become our worst enemy.

That person was never meant to be in our lives forever, remember the good times and the lessons learns then move on!


Maria W.
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Dear Diary Collection 08/01/2013 MATURE TALK!

Dear Diary,

Me again here to share yet another episode in the continuing saga known as my life. (MATURE TALK)

My best friend, the person I could tell all of my secrets too and feel safe that they would not be on the front page of the local "P"aper.

One day I shared with her that I was secretly talking to one of the most popular guys in our neighborhood she sat quietly as I told her about all of the fun and crazy things we have done and Oh Charlie that brotha is packing something special!  The more she smiled and laughed the more I opened up to tell her all of our little secrets and details of our private moments! She was very inquisitive and I was more than happy to answer all of her questions.

I told her how I grabbed his attention and all of the things I did to keep him wanting more.

Today he told me he wanted much more, but not from me! Seems she put her "P" on his "P"  Guess I was worried about the wrong "P" because the "P"apers were the least of my "P"roblems.

You see my best friend took everything I shared with her and did it better than I could EVER!

LESSON LEARNED: share clothes, jewelry and shoes but keep your man and your business to yourself.

Maria W.
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